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Group Living and Other Recipes

A Memoir

Audiobook
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2 of 2 copies available

For readers of Braiding Sweetgrass and How to Do Nothing—books that invite us to imagine better ways to live (and live with each other)—comes a spirited and charming exploration of group living from a child of the counterculture that encourages us to redefine the meaning of home and family.


Lola Milholland grew up in the nineties, the child of iconoclastic hippies. Her mom—energetic and intense at work and at play, whether at her job marketing for an agricultural co-op or paddling down a river, fat spliff in hand—had spent her life revolting against the strictures of her American and Filipino upbringing. Her dad, a child of the eastern Oregon desert, was a jovial documentary filmmaker and historian who loved to collect ephemera. Both threw open the doors of the Holman House, their rambling home in Portland, Oregon, to long-term visitors and unusual guests in need of a place to stay. Years later, after college and after her parents' separation, Milholland returned home. There, she joined her brother and his housemates—an eccentric group of stop-motion animators and accomplished cooks—in choosing to further the experiment of communal living into a new generation.


Group Living and Other Recipes tells the story of the residents of the Holman House—of transcendent meals and ecstatic parties, of colorful characters coming together in moments of deep tenderness and inevitable irritation, of a shared life that is appealing, humorous, confounding, and, just maybe, utopian—with a wider exploration of group living as a way of life.


Thoughtful, quirky, candid, and wise, Group Living and Other Recipes provides a convincing case that "now is always the right time to reimagine home and family"—and introduces a gifted memoirist and food writer in the tradition of Laurie Colwin, Ruth Reichl, and M.F.K. Fisher.


Includes a PDF of all recipes in the text.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      June 3, 2024
      Milholland examines her love of communal living in this colorful debut. Milholland’s childhood home in Portland, Ore.—nicknamed “the Holman House” after the street where it sat—felt like it belonged not only to her and her unmarried parents, but to the exchange students, travelers, researchers, and poets the family hosted. At Amherst College, Milholland sought similar community, regularly cooking vegetarian meals for 20 people in her dorm’s communal kitchen, though she noticed early on that her peers “didn’t have a shared commitment to one another or the place.” While studying in Japan in her early 20s, Milholland traded a host family who let her live quietly on the top floor of their home for one that cooked and ate together, discussing their meals and teaching her Japanese in the process. After college, Milholland longed for the comforts of the Holman House, so she returned to Portland and lived there with her brother. Even as the Great Recession and Covid-19 tested the siblings’ commitment to group living, they hosted a Thai cook, a hippie couple, a mushroom forager, and others. Supplementing the narrative with recipes sourced from friends and former roommates, Milholland paints an inviting portrait of life lived in the company of others. Readers will walk away feeling nourished.

    • Library Journal

      December 6, 2024

      Milholland debuts with an engaging memoir and exploration of communal living. She describes her unique upbringing in Portland, OR, growing up in her family home, nicknamed "Holman House," which was full of eclectic, temporary guests and her creative, open-minded family. After college, the author returned to Portland, joining her brother and a lively group of housemates as they continued their experiment in group living, benefiting from connections with others and a more affordable living situation. Narrating her own work with sincerity and passion, Milholland reflects on the people she lived with and the meals and conversations they shared. Dwelling upon humorous and heartwarming moments, she invites listeners to reconsider the meaning of home, family, and community. In this work, which is both memoir and cookbook, she also shares favorite recipes from friends and family, connecting food with memories of both happy and challenging times. VERDICT Candid and uplifting, Milholland's thought-provoking work may have listeners seeking more connections with those within their own lives. Recommend to those who enjoyed Katie Hafner's Mother Daughter Me.--Susan McClellan

      Copyright 2024 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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